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  • “My Blogging Journey So Far: A Beautiful Disaster”

    “My Blogging Journey So Far: A Beautiful Disaster”

    First of all, I want to give a huge shoutout to Taylor Standford. Honestly, I wouldn’t be where I am today without her guidance — and by “where I am today,” I mean sitting here writing this paragraph instead of binge-watching reality TV. Who is Taylor Standford? Glad you asked. She’s basically the blog whisperer — the Yoda of blogging, but taller and with way better Instagram aesthetics. She helps people start blogs and then gently shoves them out of the nest so they can fly on their own (or at least awkwardly flap their wings until they get the hang of it). If you’ve ever dreamed of sharing your wisdom, your recipes, or your cat’s daily schedule with the internet, click the link below and begin your blog journey.

    https://taylorstanford.com/blog/how-to-create-a-blog

    Choosing a Blog Name

    This blogging journey has been a wild ride, let me tell you! Tech-savvy? Ha! I once tried to reboot my computer and accidentally made it take a nap for three hours. Coming up with a name for my blog? Pure chaos. I didn’t want to trap myself into one topic—like “Back to Our Roots,” which sounds cool until you realize it basically forces you to become an amateur herbalist and beauty guru overnight. So, I went with Jade’s Random Thoughts—because why limit myself? Now I can post about anything from why my cat judges me to my secret talent for burning toast. The possibilities are endless… and slightly terrifying.

    How It Is Going

    Although starting this blog wasn’t exactly the wild, confetti-filled party I had imagined, I’m hanging in there. Sure, I wish I had a few more subscribers—maybe even enough to start a small cult of newsletter enthusiasts—but hey, patience is a virtue, right? Blogging isn’t hard; figuring out what people actually want to read? That’s the real brain-bending, hair-pulling puzzle. In just one month, I’ve racked up 1,116 views—which is mind-blowing! I mean, someone out there actually cares what I ramble about. My goal is simple: write posts that make you go, “Ah, finally! Someone else has survived the chaos of life and lived to tell the tale!” Because let’s face it, we’re all human, scrolling through life online, thinking, “Okay…so what did you do to fix this mess?” And honestly, I need all the help I can get.

    What I Would Have Done Differently

    Well, I wish I had started this journey when I was younger—back when my brain could actually absorb the magical secrets of blogging without feeling like it was learning rocket science. Poor Taylor, bless her, has been my blogging lifeline, patiently answering my…let’s call them “quirky” questions. Honestly, even if my blog magically stops getting views tomorrow, I’m thrilled because 1,116 people have peeked at my little corner of the internet—and that’s basically a small army in blog-world. So, what would I do differently? At this point, not much…unless someone invents a “blogging cheat code” in the next month. It’s only been a little over a month, and I’m sure my future self will be facepalming over all the stuff I’ll learn along the way.

    Wrapping it Up

    If you’ve made it this far, wow—thank you! I appreciate you more than coffee on a Monday morning. So, here’s my journey so far: I still have most of my hair 🙃😅, which is a win in my book. I know this post is a bit shorter than my usual novel-length rants, but I’m not into filler content—I like to get straight to the point, like a ninja with a keyboard. Has this blogging experience been amazing…or a total disaster? I’ll say I’m somewhere in the middle 😆…kidding! So far, it’s been a good ride, going about as well as a slightly tipsy tightrope walker might expect. Any new adventure comes with its highs, its “wow, I’m a genius” moments, and its lows, AKA “what the heck was I thinking?” Moments. But really, it’s all about the adventure along the way. So until next time, go forth and have a blessed day…or at least a day that doesn’t make you want to pull your hair out.

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  • Where I Started to Where I am Now!

    Where I Started to Where I am Now!

    So lets go back to the year 2012, I know that’s a long way to go back. In 2012 I was 26 years old and just welcomed my third and last child into the world. I was a high school drop out and I had a 4 year old little girl and a 2 year old boy and newborn daughter.

    I was living in the projects as many young unwed mothers did at that time. Things were looking dark I was struggling In the worst way mentally. I was living off my kids child support of $400 a month. Not much when you have 3 kids under 5. Being a mom is the best thing that happened to me. When you are a parent you always should want to be the role model your kids can look up too. To be proud of you when they look back on their childhood. Knowing you did all you could to influence them to be a better version of themselves when they are all grown up.

    I knew something had to change I had to make a better life for my kids, to be the role model they can be proud of. I wanted to do what was best for them. for that to happen I had to make big decisions.Let’s fast-forward into 2013. I started attending GED classes for young mothers, I was able to bring my kids with me while I attended classes which helped a lot. I am an over protective mother and being able to bring the kids was a life changing opportunity. It gave me the boost and the keys in a sense to open doors to many opportunities.( sorry if this post is long. I will try to give the short version) Long story short in 2014 I received my GED, my children were 6,4,and 2 at this time and in the fall of 2014 I started College courses .

    College is where everything changed, my mindset changed and my goals for our life changed. I found my self walking more confidently, and in May of 2017 I graduated with an Associates in “Office Technology” and a Certificate in Medical Technology. I went from living in the projects to living in a small apartment in 2019. Then with saving money and planning. I was able to buy my house I’m living in 2021 all on my own. I promised my kids I would try to get them a house after living in apartments . The feeling of being able to keep that promise but to also be blessed to have a house was something I couldn’t describe. I felt like I made it in life, I’m not just a single mother of three, I was thriving!

    In 2021 I met the man that is now my husband and we were married in 2024 ,and although rough days still visit me I just think about how far I have come in life and it just brings a smile to my face. Life will always have obstacles that seem so big that we start thinking second guessing our goals or life decisions. I always tell myself positive breeds positive and the same goes with negative breeds negativity. Life is going to have its ups and downs. Its alright to have a pity party for a few days, you just can’t unpack and stay in that mind set. There are a few questions to help you overcome set backs.Thee questions are: how are you going to handle it? Will you let it break you? Or make you stronger? I know that I am a stronger person mentally because of my past. Trust me it wasn’t easy but so worth it in the end when you come out on top of what you were going through. The key to making it to the top is never stop fighting. I hope when you read my blog it will bring warmth to your heart and a smile to your face. Until next time have a Blessed Day! If you enjoyed what you read, comment ” Fight” down below.

  • Come Along for the Ride: My Life, My Words.

    Come Along for the Ride: My Life, My Words.

    My name is Jadilyne Baca-Slater, but I’m going by Jade mostly. Not because I don’t like my name but because the opposite. Most people have a hard time pronouncing my name. I think Jades is easier to remember as well. Well now that’s all of the way . I want to invite you to take a peek into my world. If nothing else, please laugh with me if I make a humorous comment or spot a typo – I’m human! You don’t fail when you make a mistake; you fail when you don’t try. Lord Knows I am trying !

    As for me, I’m dipping my toes into the world of blogging. Sharing things from my life. Challenges I dealt with and overcame. Lessons I have learned. Or perhaps different type quotes I’ve seen and wanted to share. Will I succeed? Or will I fail miserably and throw a tantrum like a toddler? I don’t know yet, but what I can promise is that it will be about the ride we take together. I truly hope you enjoy it! Have a Bless Day. If you are enjoying this blog comment “yes” down below, if you are shy just hit the like button

    Don’t forget to check out Jades Cozy Nook. Where you will find a few digital products

    Mini Care Giver Kit- Checklist, Chaos and Coffee.-It helps keep your stress on the down low. It also assists you in taking care of your loved one or your client.

    7 Day Journal Reset for Stressed Parents- This is a 7 day journal that gives you a place to vent. It’s filled with question prompts mixed with humor quotes to hopefully bring a smile to your face.

    That was a lot to write, I could use a cup of coffee to re-energize. Wanna help? it only cost $2. That is it, with $2 I can help with the little things behind the scenes.